Trafficking Isn’t What You Think: Myths, Missing Youth and the Power of Paying Attention
What comes to mind when you hear the phrase “human trafficking”? If your first thought is a movie plot or a dramatic abduction overseas, you’re not alone.
But here’s the truth: Human trafficking is happening in our own backyards, and it rarely looks like what you think.
At Redefining Refuge, we’ve spent over a decade supporting young survivors of sex trafficking right here in Tampa Bay. Many were never “taken;” they were overlooked. They ran away from unsafe homes, aged out of foster care without a plan or simply went missing without anyone asking the right questions.
Myth #1: Trafficking always involves kidnapping.
Fact: The majority of children who are trafficked knew their trafficker and in some cases, believed they were in a relationship. Coercion and manipulation are far more common than force.
Myth #2: It only happens in big cities or foreign countries.
Fact: Florida consistently ranks among the top three states for reported trafficking cases. It’s not a far-away issue; it’s a local crisis.
Myth #3: Trafficking doesn’t affect “normal” families.
Fact: Traffickers exploit vulnerability, not background. Kids from every zip code are at risk when there’s a gap in supervision, stability or support.
One of the most critical intersections we see is between child trafficking and missing youth. In fact, 1 in 6 runaway children reported to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children are likely victims of trafficking.
That’s why Redefining Refuge partnered with the U.S. Marshals Service for a major child recovery operation for the past two consecutive years, because the faster we find them, the better their odds of escaping exploitation.
To mark World Day Against Trafficking in Persons on July 30, we’re inviting the entire community to take a stand with us through our “All Hands On Deck” initiative.
At its heart is a simple act with a powerful message: paint your hands blue, position them in the form of a butterfly, post a photo, and tag us [@redefiningrefuge] to show your solidarity with survivors and commitment to raising awareness.
Across the region, our mural of blue butterfly handprints grows; each one a symbol of hope, unity and protection. It’s a reminder that when we join hands (literally and figuratively), we shine a light on hidden truths and create safer futures for our kids.
Here’s how you can help:
- Get informed. Learn the real signs of trafficking: sudden behavior changes, isolation, expensive gifts or older partners.
- Report suspicious activity. Call 1-888-373-7888 or text “BEFREE” to 233733.
- Talk to your kids. Conversations about safety, boundaries and online grooming save lives.
The goal isn’t to scare; it’s to equip. Every blue handprint matters. And every voice raised in truth brings us closer to a world where every child is seen, safe and free.
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Originally published in the July 2025 issue of Tampa Bay Parenting Magazine.